Should you dump him? Or give it some time? For some women, the decision to dump a guy is a very difficult one. Women tend to nurture and feel that if they just changed a little to suit him, their relationship would be a happier one. But guess what? It won’t. Dating a guy who isn’t right for you is just a waste of time. Worst of all, the longer you stay with a guy who is wrong means that you’re not available for someone who is right for you.

If you need some reasons why you should break up, here are five quick ones.

He’s Abusive

DO NOT stay with someone who is violent, or harms you physically or emotionally. Your personal safety and state of mind should always come first. Being in love should be a wonderful, positive thing.

He’s Cheated

It’s true that cheating doesn’t have to be a repetitive thing. If a guy cheats once, will he do it again? It depends on the guy. But do you really want to take the chance? If he’s cheated more than once, you know it isn’t an isolated incident, and you need to leave.

He Doesn’t Share Your Life View

You want kids and he doesn’t. You want to travel the world one day and he wants to spend his retirement in his jammies watching TV. While small differences can help a relationship, big ones can derail it. People that are a little opposite can help each other grow. People that are polar opposites usually aren’t on the same page.

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