Review of How to Find a Woman… or Not
Gary Morgenstein has written a great little book with How to Find a Woman…Or Not (Volume 1)
The book is written in the first person as Morgenstein shares his own experience. This gives the reader the impression that you’re sitting with the author and having a casual chat. Morgenstein equates the experience of going out on a date like the craziness of “March Madness, one mistake and you’re eliminated.” To combat this, he provides what he calls “Morgy Rules” which are little tidbits of thought sprinkled throughout the book to help the reader. For example:
“You are still young at heart because without that belief in the possible, none of this can work.”
or
“There is no rejection.”
I agreed with the start of Chapter Two, that “Everyone has potential for you to meet your true love. Or at least a date.” Very true. I often think daters forget about this and immediately think they have to jump into a relationship. Remember, dating is supposed to be fun!
The language of the book is clearly “guy speak.” The author provides talking points for ways to approach and meet women almost anywhere. Like most dating books, this book offers a lot of common sense tips – but still, sometimes that’s exactly what you need to hear when you’re dating. How to Find a Woman… or Not seems to be directed toward guys returning to the dating world. The author suggests that guys 25-55 would enjoy this book, but as I read through it I could picture guys on the older side (40 and up) who have been in a relationship of some sort and are trying to figure out the dating world benefiting most from the author’s advice.
The author provides a host of tips for meeting women in various places (like the subway, airport, out on the street, coffee shop) and I was pleasantly surprised by the book and feel it would be a helpful tool in providing confidence to men struggling with dating or unsure on how to go about it.
Book provided by Pump up Your Book Promotion.
This is so funny that I read this today. I just had a guy strike up a conversation at a book store. I was there to buy a book. He introduced himself, politely, and started talking about the weather. I wasn’t interested, but he was very nice. Some single lady would have really been impressed. Nice guy! GL
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